comehandlethis1 49 / F
"Do u have substance between ur ears & thighs? Do u know how & when to use both? Come find me !!!"
Los Angeles, California, United States
 
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comehandlethis1 49/F
Los Angeles, California
It's starting to heat up in LA ... time to get naked & sweaty !!!
Introduction
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9/2011 ~ To date, the man I seek has proved too elusive for me. I am very selective in my search for a quality man that I can build a trusting friendship to extensively explore an intense, passionate, sensual & sexual side.
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I'm anything but ' ordinary '. Among the many things I am is an smart, independent, strong woman who is very curious by nature with a voracious sexual appetite wanting to expand my horizons with an ' extra-ordinary ' man of substance.

I like to laugh and have fun. I prefer a friendship that doesn't need to be label or defined. If there is no chemistry, connection or reason to speak outside the bedroom, I see no reason to be in the bedroom. It's all about chemistry for me! It all starts with a great kiss. I don't want to play games but I do want to get to know you. I only need one man, the right man, for a LT friendship with benefits to explore & push the boundaries of my sensual & sexual side.

Sex is good but GREAT SEX is what I seek. I desire sensual, sexual, passionate, intense, teasing, playful sex. I like kissing, touching and foreplay. If it is good I will be greedy and want more !

I am selective !

If you like to hit it and run or looking for a casual random hook up, I'm not the one you are seeking. I'm not interested in a man who is married, attached, living with, seriously dating someone else, bi-sexual, is shady or on the DL. No heavy drinkers or smokers , drug users, liars, thieves, players, con men, frauds, thugs, hood rats or gang members wanted. Please do not contact me ... just go right past me!

I only play safely without exception

I do not host in my home ... EVER

My Ideal Person: I'm attracted to a strong, intelligent & smart, confident, sensual, sexy man with some style, swag & a sense of humor. Your style & swag should include the natural ability to be charming, witty & want to woo me. Have some game ... be flirty and quick enough for verbal banter ! That is sexy to me.

Please have a moral compass and be accountable for your words, actions & beliefs. Willing to see what happens and put some effort to make things more than just sex because from trust and a bond comes GREAT SEX. I want a man with something substantial between his ears and thighs who knows when and how to use them both. Please be able to articulate your needs, desires, wants and are comfortable with a LT FWB relationship to push boundaries & explore. I'm all yours if you have the ability to make me squirt !

I'm assuming if you feel the overwhelming need to add the catch phrase "No drama" and/or "NSA" to your profile, we wouldn't get along. I desire an open-minded man who is not hypersensitive regarding time well spent with another. Unemotionally unavailable men are a complete turn off for me. Please have discretion !

Knowing what you want or expect are important and should be expressed during our conversations. Fellas, knowledge is power !

You need to be oral (give & receive) and engage in foreplay. You can handle a touchy-feely intense sexual situation. If you're passionate, like & can kiss well, come find me. I want a man who has a take charge personality NOT a man who needs to be domineering ... for me there is a vast difference. I want a man to make things happen sexually. I'm NOT interested in a D/s relationship.

Good hygiene and maintenance when & where it is needed is a must.

I'm not interested in a man I can not reach by phone & email during reasonable hours or supply a face picture.

If you're married, attached, have a live-in, seriously dating, bi-sexual, shady or on the DL, weak, subservient, a liar, a thief, a thug, a player, a fraud, a con man, a gang member, a hood rat, a heavy drinker or smoker, a drug user or just want another conquest, please do not contact me. I am not interested in hit and run action nor am I a tourist attraction for those just passing through town.

I do not host in my home ... EVER


Safe sex only, no exceptions. No STD's in any form or fashion. If you have something ... step up, be a man, do the right thing. Do not be shady or on the DL ... Inform your partners. Hear me clearly ... I just have no interest in being your partner !

Any institutions, individuals, and/or third parties using this site and/or any of its associated sites for studies or projects, and/or any duplication (for any reason) and/or posting to any site - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile and/or pictures in any form or forum -past, current and future-. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications under the Privacy Act, Copyright Protection Act and/or other.


Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
If I start expressing my fantasies to you it means I am digging
you.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, All things are good in moderation.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Nope, I want someone who is real.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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Information
  • 49 / female
  • Los Angeles, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Men for Discreet Relationship, 1-on-1 sex, Bondage & Discipline or Exhibitionism/Voyeurism
Birthdate: September 1, 1962
(49 years old)
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 9 in / 175-177 cm
Body Type: Ample
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Not applicable
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Bra Size: 40 / 90 Above DD / E
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Either
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