She is very bi, he is straight, both smokers and social drinkers and 36 years of age. We are not necessarily the "hard core" type of swingers -- though we've "full-swapped" with some attractive couples. Nevertheless, it can turn us off to see some people "getting around" with whomever and whenever. It all depends how we get along with the "other couple" and on the mutual attraction whether we go "all the way" or perhaps just the gals decide to have some fun on their own, and the guys either just watch or touch here-and-there, and go with their own partner. We've been "around" the lifestyle for about 3 years. We kinda have that softer touch of class perhaps... We can talk about it when we meet sometime.

My Ideal Person We would like to find a female or a couple with whom we can be friends and have fun in and out of the bedroom. We prefer the first meeting to take place over a nice dinner where we can chat, laugh, get to know each other a bit and perhaps plan for more. *wink*
With the right couple we wouldn't mind taking off to exotic destinations, such as the Hedo resort in Jamaica or to the Fun-for-Two in Gouda (Holland), etc.