We are looking for people that are secure in who they are. People that can socialize, laugh and have a good time are always wanted. We are a full swap couple but can go with the flow if everyone is not comfortable. We are open to single females and couples that are secure in their relationship. We do not like pushy people as we are laid back and just enjoy getting to know people and have a good time. Not looking for single males at this time. He is 46, 6'3, 230,former college football player,so a sports fanatic straight, usually short brown hair, and blue eyes. He is the quiet one in the relationship, but warms up once he gets to know you. He is creative in the bedroom, and fulfills all of her fantasies. Dry sense of humor but loves to laugh and tries to dance lol. Loves to be flirted with and have a woman make the first move but after that look out. She is 40, 6 feet tall, 46DD, with short reddish, brown hair. She has mischievous green eyes and is a voluptuous BBW who is proud of her curves. She is confident in who she is and loves to meet new people. She hasn't ever met a stranger and plunges into life head first. We are best friends and truly believe that we have found the love of our lives. We are open minded which led us to swinging. We believe in letting each other explore our sexuality and sensuality, but sharing the experience is what makes it even more erotic for us. Above all else, our first commitment is to each other. We have at home, and we are involved with them and their activities. At times, it is hard to be spontaneous and meet up with people, so some planning is needed. Hosting is hit and miss and requires some planning. She smokes, but only when we are out partying. We have nothing against smokers at all and we are courteous enough not to smoke around those who don't. We drink, but only socially. Our taste in music could be described as eclectic, we like a little bit of everything. She identifies as being bi-sexual. She has had a few experiences that has confirmed that for her. She loves the feel of a woman's soft skin and lips. She also believes in give and take. A couple with a bi female is NOT a must as she is attracted to men just as much as women. If a man can make her smile and laugh, he's got her interest. We are very respectful of others boundaries, and hope others can respect ours as well. We have been to Xchange and Genesis. Clubs are fun, but a quiet night at home or dinner with friends is nice also. We also attend house parties. People who can't write a sentence or send/ask for pics of parts that your gynecologist or urologist has seen aren't for us. We're not prudes - we just like to leave something to the imagination. We are looking for more than playing on the cam or swapping pictures. If you have read all of this, then you might be who we are looking for. We hope to hear from you soon. We would like to find people that we have things in common with - in and out of the bedroom. The biggest turn on for us are brains that receive regular exercise.