Well, it's a new year and I really have not been active on here, though I keep it because it's fun to read the responses. If you do want to write, listen up. If you don't send a photo, there is a 99% chance I will not respond. If you those really stupid wang photos, there is a 100% chance I will not respond. I know it's a sex site, but I just don't want to see your jutting wang unless I like you and it's in the flesh. I like smart people and those who are articulate (ie writing "ur hot" doesn't count). I am NOT interested in married or otherwise occupied men. So...if you're a smart, cool guy who is at least open to seeing if something may go somewhere, then write me. Not into no-strings, sorry. You know how many diseases are out there? I'm into staying clean, thanks. I can be extremely sarcastic, so please understand sarcasm and dark humor and do not mistake my words as being "bitter" because I am far from that, very much. I love life and a lot that it has to offer.

My Ideal Person I like the unconventional and unusual. I find mainstream life very boring and unfulfilling, and I like people who can transition easily from city life to country life. I like people who "get" NYC, underground music, and won't mind if I change hair color every so often or have a penchant for wearing a lot of black. I am not your typical straightened hair, Coach sporting, Ugg wearing girl. In fact, I hate all of that. I don't care if you drive a Jeep or BMW, and can easily go from a nice dress up dinner one night to the next night of shooting pool and swigging beer from a bottle. You should be the same, non-pretentious, laid back, and just plain COOL. How hard is that? Apparently for a lot of people it is pretty difficult...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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