Back after a very long, but well needed hiatus. I'm here because an excessive amount of work/study/travel/training has rendered my social life in the Illinois area rather void. I'm not a fan at all of the social scene around here either - it flat out sucks really - so I figured I'd come back to AFF to meet somewhat more like-minded individuals. I'm the real deal, so I'm looking for the real deal too. I apologize if I come of curt in messages, but I'm honestly not into endless internet messaging since you can't tell what people are really like until met in per anyways. If you feel more comfortable first meeting in a public place to get acquainted and comfortable, I perfectly understand that and don't mind obliging, but I prefer to keep the email threads somewhat short. Lastly, I'm a pretty open minded individual. You won't find boundaries here; inside and outside of the bedroom. That implies that it is a trait that I really appreciate in others as well.

My Ideal Person Someone who will understand that I have a busy life, who can respect that, and even better yet, who has a busy life themselves. Educated would be a huge plus.

I love sex, but love building connections as well. Not looking for a serious relationship at all at the moment, but an ongoing FWB scenario with someone sexy and who shares somewhat similar ideas would be good. At the end of the day, good company from those rare good people is always welcome.