I'm a professional woman who is physically active, well educated and very open minded. I'm pretty kinky, but kink isn't a requirement, and plain old bar-brawl style sex is fine too. I'm in an open relationship, and am looking for someone in a similar situation. If you're interested, and you're reaably close to what I'm looking for (see below) send me a message. Please include a face pic if you don't have one on your profile. Yeah, I'm just that shallow. I will reciprocate if it looks promising.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a regular thing with a man who has a happy, healthy, primary relationship, but whose partner is OK with him seeing someone else. I'm only interested in men who are professionals, physically active, assertive, hypersmart, reasonably sophisticated and interesting. I don't really want to travel so I'm hoping to find someone in Boston, Cambridge or Somerville.

I'm looking for a relationship--not entirely free of strings, but very minimal requirements other than being there on a fairly regular basis, keeping commitments and being kind.

I pretty much don't answer messages from guys with cockshots for profile pics. Here's why: Oasiscat

While I'd expect sex to be a big part of our relationship, I'm looking for something multi-dimensional that includes going out sometimes for dinner, a movie, or cultural events. If we can't find anything to talk about other than sex, it wouldn't work for me. I'd love to find someone who wants to know how my day at work went and has some interest in getting to know me. I'm intensely nosy so will want to get to know you too.

I'm not looking for a one night stand.